Hear, hear to both of you. And you are dead right w934. Sage words [all of them actually, so a few quoted here will do:

'I know it takes a certain amount of effort to not lower ones self by repaying in kind..but it sure ends the problem. It takes two or more for a fight to happen..and often a bigger person to walk away..You will "win" every time.."

I need yo give up responding to posts playing the man, and I've got to give up posting posts that often [but not always] sets that rubbish into motion. And I have to water down my very dry humor a bit, that easily gets taken the wrong way because they are only words without the luxury of expressions and body language.
When I call a poster a 'Dunce' [or worse]. I forget the other components ain't available for them to see. Usually a 'nasty' serve from me is never what it is often perceived as. I just ************ it all up and ************ it all up even more when I pursue a slight that I have often caused in the first place!

I'm going to practice exactly what you are getting at. Even I have room for improvement [a joke, a joke]:-)

Now on with racing.