Writing something with the same intentions of how you would wish to say it, is a hard concept.

2 vital concepts when it comes to delivering a message are : tone of voice and body language.
Both of which are missing from a forum environment. All we have to go on is words on the screen.

Glad you are somebody that can step back and see others opinions. Also glad that you believe so much in what you are doing. We need more people that are so certain of their way of doing things, but we also need to believe that there are more than 1 way.

Happy punting. And don't forget, there is nothing wrong with a bit of "healthy discussion".