Calm down Crash, I just happen to believe that we are all in control of our own decisons, I've made some horrific ones, that I regret, but don't shirk the responsibilty. I made my bed & now have to lie in it........so to speak.

On the question in topic, I have a son dying of hep c, I'm sure you know what a knife through the heart is, but you know even he says that it was his own doing!